Your instinct in a collapse is to zoom out. You put your trouble against a longer horizon, remember who has it worse, find the meaning or the lesson, and take real comfort in the fact that this will look small in ten years. Perspective is how you stop the floor tilting.
At its best this makes you unusually forgiving and hard to embitter. At its worst it is a very elegant way of refusing your own pain. Compassion aimed everywhere but inward becomes a kind of erasure, and letting go too early leaves things unfinished that needed to be said.
The mature version lets the specific loss be its own size first. Grieve the actual thing, name what you are owed, allow the anger its week. The wide view keeps all its power when it arrives second.
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